Getting you on quality dates without changing who you are

If you're wondering any of these...

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Why aren’t you getting the right women in front of you?

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Why is it women aren’t interested in you?

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What are you doing wrong?

Or you're struggling with...

Finding your confidence

You’re not even sure what makes you attractive. You’re feeling like you’re just not what women are looking for.

Confusion & Frustration

You’re trying different things, but nothing is working. You’re absolutely stuck on what to do or where to even go.

Noticing you’re at a disadvantage

You’ve either been married most of your life or single, focused on your career, and never had a relationship.

Good news – I can help you answer all of those and more.

The first option for you is a la carte products guiding you through specific topics like how to write your online dating profile, how to gain confidence, finding your attractive traits, and more. This is where you should begin if you don’t know where to start and need a boost!

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Want something more personal?

Customized to your personality and needs as I hold you accountable to quickly reach your results?

That’s why I created Good Gentleman, a private premium 1:1 coaching package

A high-touch service customized to your needs and meet your goals without changing who you are.

You’d get a fully customized plan for you.

Together, we’d create a plan to get you on dates without changing who you are so you can find the ONE.

With my support, you’d feel:

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  • Excited feeling closer to meeting the girl of your dreams
  • Clear of your main blocker keeping you from getting dates
  • Knowledgable of exactly how dating works & what to do
  • Aware of your strengths and highlights
  • Attractive with the new ladies interested in you
  • Certain on what women really want
  • Comfortable by discovering your own full potential
  • Quick to catch women’s cues and respond positively
  • Unafraid of rejection, not letting it phase you
  • Confident, cool, and suave after working on finding yourself
  • At ease and comfortable when speaking to a woman
  • Excited to online date with success
  • No longer nervous when meeting a woman
  • …and more!

I am completely passionate about making sure you are equipped with all the knowledge, strategies, and material to get you on a date that will lead you to your dream girl.

It’s your time to happily

be in a relationship.

You spend most of your life being incredibly generous, making others a priority, and doing what’s best for everyone else. Let’s change this.

Invest in yourself, it’s your time to be happy with the dream girl.

I can help you get there.

I have worked with the matchmaking firm, It’s just Lunch, and I was the lead matchmaker and coach at eHarmony’s premium service, eH+. I have helped hundreds of clients search for their special person, coached those to be successful, and helped clients get happily married and in relationships.

I earned a Masters degree in Marriage and family Therapy from the University of Southern California and a Bachelors degree in Social Work from San Diego State University. I have worked with many couples to enhance their overall satisfaction and overcome struggles in their relationship.

Learn more about my journey and see me working with a client below:

What happens during

our time together?

If your free strategy call is accepted, we will hop on the phone together to see if we’re the right fit for each other.

We will figure out what obstacles to overcome, the exact steps it’ll take to get you to your results, and the time it’ll take.

Together, we lay out a plan that consists anywhere from 4 modules/sessions to 12-15 modules/sessions, ranging over a span of 1 month to 3 months.

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No matter how many sessions we decide, in addition to the calls, you will receive access to me via text/email (for all those “she said this, but what does it mean?” texts with a screenshot), customized PDF modules for each session (so you don’t have to scribble too many notes, I got you).

We will be meeting virtually via phone and Zoom, with option for in-person for SoCal clients. You will also be receiving assignments so you can go out there and implement! …and I will hold you accountable 🙂 Because, if you want this….I want this for you and want to help.

I will be by your side

in this journey

No more feeling awkward talking about it to your bros or to other women. Most importantly, you don’t have to do this alone anymore. You’re no longer talking to yourself “what did I do this time?” — you’ll have me to ask 🙂

Sounds exciting? Ready to get the results you’ve been looking for?

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Read what other men just like you have said...

I’m divorced with full custody of my young child, so I take my investments very seriously. Deciding to take the plunge to get Ruby’s help was the most efficient use of my time and money. I stayed open-minded, took her feedback/advice, and met an incredible woman in 2 weeks. She’s intelligent, funny, and we’re going on our 5th date next week. If it wasn’t for Ruby, I would have never met her. I did not think of even searching at that location. Sometimes, you have to push through the fear and go for it. Yes, there were struggles and dating is still rough. But, you’re in great hands with Ruby. She really cares, she supported me through all the obstacles, and works harder than me, hah.

I’ve been going out with an amazing woman I met at a bookstore and also, received an overwhelming response online and offline. This happened after immediately working with Ruby. She was very attentive as to what I was looking for, my expectations, and what I would usually do in meeting partners.. I am extremely shy and feel awkward when trying to talk to new people, so her advice on how to approach women, be confident, and move past my internal struggles was very helpful. If you are in need of some help finding a date, approaching someone, or just being social in general, I wholeheartedly recommend you seek her out. The amount of help I received from even just one session has proved to be invaluable to me.

Ruby helped me to better communicate to ladies, because Ruby is herself a lady. That gave me great confidence, it was really helpful to me when I would communicate with other women.

I learned to better understand the woman that I really wanted to spend the rest of my life with. It really helped to affirm what is a better match for me, based on who I am. It made me much more self-aware and reflective in what I wanted in a lady. Instead of bad dates, I went on quality dates.

I am thankful that I had your support because I wouldn’t have been able to conduct myself properly before, during or after.

Any previous notions I had on online dating have been remolded with an optimistic view of the future. With Ruby’s guidance, I can finally put myself out there in the dating world.

I have run into services where they were definitely not qualified. I was skeptical coming in. I must say Ruby has earned my respect because of her integrity. You get what you put in. I am now engaged to a wonderful woman because of Ruby.

I found Ruby’s advice invaluable. She is welcoming, supportive, realistic, and you know she loves what she does. I, unfortunately, got myself in the deep friend-zone with my friend. Ruby helped me get a real date with her.

I never had a girlfriend before getting Ruby’s help. She was very honest with me and I put in the work. It was not easy! I now have been with my girlfriend for 5 months because of Ruby and we just had our 2 week vacation together.

We have videos of real clients & their experiences

Like Edward below, who went from zero experience to in a wonderful relationship

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Why wait to see if

it “may happen”?

You don’t want to wait another 5 years to realize you should have done this years before. Because by that time, it may be a little too late. These skills need to be practiced, it’s not going to magically happen.

Why need a coach? Aren’t I not being genuine then? Wrong! Why do people need to get a fitness coach? To get the fit body help. You get a coach, an expert in their field, to help you get to a result you want. I am here with all my knowledge about women and dating to help you step-by-step get you on dates with quality women, getting closer to the one.

Let’s face it, you are reading this because what you’ve been doing has not worked so far.

You can read articles and books as much as you want, but it’s still speaking to a broad audience. You’re a unique individual in a specific area. You get a coach to have a the one on one care and support.

It’s fairytale talk if you believe that if you stick to the same routine, you’d get something different.

You need to do something different to get something different.

Note: Because of the heavy investment I put in for each client, spots for new clients are limited. I only work with genuine, good-hearted, and stable men with the goal of eventually finding the one, to be in a healthy long-term relationship. I’d love to hear more about you and see if we’d be a good fit to work together.

For any other questions, you may e-mail [email protected]

Ready to have that special woman

wrapped in your arms? Let’s talk.

Let’s not make your love life wait any longer and jumpstart your efforts in the right direction.

I’m Ready

Important note: Although I do believe (there’s also proof!) my advice, products and programs can help you enhance your dating life, it does not guarantee it will work for everyone.  I cannot predict and I do not guarantee that you will attain a particular result, and you accept and understand that results differ for each individual. Each individual’s results depend on his or her unique background, dedication, desire, motivation, actions, and numerous other factors. But, I will tell you that if you follow my advice, your chances to getting the lady you want will be drastically higher than how you started. My role is assist you in reaching your own goals, but your success depends primarily on your own effort, motivation, commitment, and follow-through. Let’s get out of that unstuck space – We got this!