I have spent many years working, researching, and creating a one-on-one program that would get you from your zero luck to multiple connections that mean something to you. I wanted a program that would help you overcome your mindset barriers, fears, build confidence, and attract the girl of your dreams.
I could go on and on about how my strategies, years of experience, and coaching style would get you the progress you’ve been looking for.
But I’m sure you don’t want to hear it from me.
Let’s let my past clients tell you themselves!
They are like you, with the same fears and struggles, and big heart. Except, they took a leap many are too afraid to do, and look where it landed them.
A deeper look into their experiences and results after working with yours truly
Here are text messages I’ve received from clients of their success. Wouldn’t you want to send one of these? 🙂 click the image to enlarge
Lucas: Getting into a relationship after heartbreak and rejection
Here we are again in one of my client’s success stories. Please meet Lucas who has been struggling to rediscover himself and sticking to his beliefs that a woman will come along and follow. We will discuss how he was able to overcome his struggles, how grateful that he has sought my help and get into a relationship after his heartbreak. It’s amazing where he ends up. The following is the verbatim of our discussion.
But when I met Ruby, by the grace of God, she gave me a lot of great advice. Her system really, really changed my life, really, really, for the better. To be honest with you, after everything that she’s taught me, all of her advice, I was able to meet a wonderful girl. We are now coming up on a one-month relationship, been dating for a month, a little more than a month. This relationship has been everything that I expected and more. She’s been really, really great. She’s the light of my life, as I would say right now.
Thomas: How to date when you don’t know what to do
Going back to the story, I would have a dry mouth, I would be nervous. In the beginning, when I first started working with you, I just didn’t know what to say. Even though there were some signs there that she was interested, I couldn’t move forward.
But after reframing and telling myself a key phrase, I am so much calmer. I have no more nerves. I can talk to her about anything. In fact, the last time I saw her three weeks ago, we were talking about the weekend and what we’re going to be doing next. Reframing myself just blown me away.
William Hung’ Successful Dating Journey
After going through marriage twice with both marriages not working out, leaving him with pain, he still wanted to find true love. He even came to a point of giving up his dating journey and thought of spending his life being single not until he saw me at Luisa Zhou’s program, Employee to Entrepreneur. He was so amazed by my working experiences and my background in helping good gentlemen finding their loved ones.
Also, the other thing that I want to point out that you helped me with a lot was the system. You definitely gave me a system. What to comment on? What to like? How to respond to their feedback? How to get them to tell their stories? That’s one of the most important factors.
Scott was so appreciative, he appreciates how I was able to help him shifted his mind into a healthy mindset. How enlightening it was for him to learn how to bounce back from being rejected and not be discouraged to continue his dating journey. Because there is someone out there and the goal is just to find out who that is. He also mentioned that identifying his attractive traits, going out of his comfort zone, how to project himself, and what to look for on a date are some of the few things that he was able to learn from our one-on-one coaching session, and now Scott is currently talking with a quality girl.
Ruby was there to help with that, and help with my confidence, and I’m really appreciative of Ruby. Helping me out in certain situations, and definitely.
Seth: from exhaustion to committed relationship
“He’s been getting dates but it is not leading anywhere, and been wondering how to get them to stick. This is Seth’s struggle for almost his entire dating life.
Seth is a professional guitarist and music teacher that found Ruby’s program right after he talked to another counselor apart from coming across Ruby’s video on his Facebook Feed and liked the way she approached things.
He believed that Ruby can be a big help. He mentioned that he goes out on multiple dates in a week that is not leading him anywhere and finally learned how to stick with fewer dates when he started working one on one with Ruby.
Somebody like yourself who’s really encouraging, but real, and you don’t BS, but you’re direct, that’s how I roll top.
Dennis shares his Online Dating Success Story
Dennis is 44-year-old, divorced, and has been in the online dating world for quite some time. He made some best strides and tried his luck to meet a quality woman online, but he always ends up in the wrong relationship, which leads him to questions, doubt, and self-sabotage He believed that his standards were too high and always found something wrong with his date. He went on a workout spree and lost 40 pounds, reached out to expert pick-up artist guys who have helped him keep the conversations going with the girls but no luck on what to do next.
“I am absolutely blown away with both the message and the sincerity, you came straight from the hearth – Dennis”
Ed get a girlfriend at the age of 42
Some of the clients that I’ve previously worked with are over the age of 40. They’ve decided to reach out and invest in learning such life skills that made their dating game to the next level, just like Edward that got his first girlfriend at the age of 42 before even he finishes working one-on-one with me.
Edward: Well, right now, I feel great. I have a great sense of pride, amazement, and joy too because I made a lot of strides in dealing with my social anxiety. Also, with just learning the ropes with dating women. Now that I’m in a relationship, it’s great. It’s a great feeling, especially around this time of the year during the holidays.
Kevin: from no dates, no interest to getting his first girlfriend and happily in his FIRST committed relationship
Meet Kevin, 32 years old, engineer living in San Diego, CA. He didn’t have much of a dating experience, and if he did — it was only first dates. He was always getting seen as the “nice guy” and getting friend-zoned. He had all these questions like “How can I avoid this zone? How can I be confident? How can I meet women?” — listen to more of his journey to learn how he came from that to being in a committed relationship. And trust us, it wasn’t easy — but it was all worth it.
I do have a girlfriend, we see eye to eye, saw my strengths….she saw that and some of the things I”m worried about like not being tall enough, being an Asian guy, I thought women weren’t liking me for these reasons…but she likes me for all those reasons, for who truly I am.
This story will surely inspire you not to lose hope even though you don’t have much experience in dating.
Konrad is an IT specialist and dated few people with no success because he never felt any connection with any of them. After moving to a new place and changing his career, he realizes that he can’t figure anything out on his own, and that’s what motivated him to work with me.
Ruby, you really helped me dispel that apprehension and show me that it doesn’t have to be like that. If you do it the right way and you’re willing to commit to doing it the right way, then the online aspect of dating the way it is now doesn’t have to be so difficult.
Max, a 29-year-old entrepreneur from Minessota, put his dating life on the back burner for the past years and is focusing on building up his career and growing his business. He just then noticed that every person he went on a date was from his social circle and he struggled to meet new people due to moving from one city to another. Aside from his time and energy already limited, he didn’t know what to do, being hesitant about dating apps, and realizes that he didn’t have the best process for it
Max: Things are a lot better now. I just have so much more confidence as far as the process of online dating and just how I hold myself in a relationship. Things are so much better than I feel it’s more of an abundant mindset versus scarcity. I don’t feel stressed out or frustrated towards dating or anything like that. It’s a lot better of a situation.
Jefferson : How to find a quality woman and keep her
I’m Jefferson. I’m based in San Diego, California. The main reason why I sought out Ruby was that I was dating a lot of girls, but I wasn’t finding the better quality women I really liked, or I was really attracted to. The whole thing around that was I felt I was wasting my time, because I was going out on a lot of coffee dates, a lot of dinner dates, and they’re just all one date and done pretty much.
I realize that it doesn’t matter what they say, I own my own life and this is what I really want to do. If you’re frustrated enough, you try and make something different happen, if that means going to Ruby, a dating coach, dating advice, then that’s what you have to do.
Who would have thought that you can find love during the pandemic? Yes, It’s really possible, as the saying goes “With every crisis, there is always an opportunity if you were the smart one to see it”. In this modern-day, with our advanced technology, there’s now an option that allows you to easily connect with other people.
I realized that, thanks to you that, I have quite a lot to offer. I started getting a lot of dates using your advice, kind of really soon before we even got to the part about having the first date-
How to build confidence and attract a woman
This is one of the inspiring stories I wanted you guys to hear. Please meet Miles, 28, a real estate person, who lives in Henderson, Nevada. He was a little taken aback by the amount of interest he has been receiving and never thought he would get much when he started working with me. He said he was only expecting 2 matches over the course of a couple of months but was surprised that he was able to get two matches in his first two days of working with me. Miles feels like he’s the one who’s getting all the interest and thought that it would be the other way around. The following is the verbatim of our conversation and edited for clarity.
Miles: I think the most important part for me was you helping me to find my most desirable traits, which in turn had a boosting effect on my confidence, self-esteem, much needed, wanted that. Now, I don’t question whether I’m good or not anymore. I just know I am.
Insecurity is good to some extent because it makes you work harder, but, if your insecurities make you feel little and hopeless to find a quality girl or start to doubt yourself, it’s difficult to start dating.
Rohan: Yeah. Also, when we started doing the actual dates, our sense of humor definitely meshed right away. I guess it would’ve been on the third date, actually, the first movie we saw together was Deadpool.
Jason has gotten into some serious relationships and had several dating experiences, but admits that he has never felt connected to a deeper level with the women he dated.
Aside from the fact that he is a bit of a perfectionist, he also admitted that he relaxed a bit and got more open-minded after we started working together. He explains how my guidance has helped him get higher quality dates and understand women better. Jason’s story will surely inspire you. The transcription was edited for clarity.
Jason: Well I admit that your guidance helps me a lot, I think. There are more matches, more quality matches. Being in a position where you have options, helps. It really does help with confidence, so I do thank you for that.
I was like, “Oh, my gosh, this is awesome.” Then, she said some of the other things that just really caused me to go, “Okay, I got to check out her website.”
When I checked out her website, I started noticing that she’s not like the other dating coaches. She really is about helping, guys. Good Guys, guys like us, find good quality women, who will appreciate us for who and what we are, and so these other guys, going through the stuff with Ruby has actually put me in a state where I don’t even have to listen to those guys anymore.
Jason: It should be knowing my strengths and being able to build on my strengths and being able to market my strengths kind of. Because before, I wouldn’t really know what made me attractive. I don’t know why people liked me. Now, I have a good idea of that and I’m able to market that better, or just communicate that better with the people I’m dating. I think that’s giving me a lot of success.
It’s just about how I reacted to other people and how I interacted with other people. So, it’s mainly just, you have to realize that this is a learning opportunity for you and like anything in life, if you want to get better at something, you need to either work really hard at it or have someone teach you what to do.
Important note: Although I do believe (there’s also proof!) my advice, products and programs can help you enhance your dating life, it does not guarantee it will work for everyone. I cannot predict and I do not guarantee that you will attain a particular result, and you accept and understand that results differ for each individual. Each individual’s result depends on his or her unique background, dedication, desire, motivation, actions, and numerous other factors. But, I will tell you that if you follow my advice, your chances of getting the lady you want will be drastically higher than how you started. My role is to assist you in reaching your own goals, but your success depends primarily on your own effort, motivation, commitment, and follow-through. Let’s get out of that unstuck space – We got this!