It is summer, and everyone is out and about, and I’ll go over the best summer dating advice and tips to help you have a successful dating season. So, what’s the point of summer dating? Why am I going on about it? Because it is literally, the hottest time of the year, but also because it is the hottest time to date due to the weather, most of us are in a really positive, hopeful, outgoing mood.
As a result, it is easier and more natural for singles to be out and about during this time to meet new people and attend new events. People are simply more willing to be outside, and who wouldn’t want to be outside during this time of year, enjoying an event with company? 🙂
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With that said, this is why now is the most critical and important season to take action, get out, and date. Online dating, offline dating, it doesn’t matter. But how do you make the most of this season, which technically only lasts three months: June, July, and August? (It can sometimes last into September, but those are the three hottest months so far.) So I am so eager to go over it.
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The main focus you should have during this time is to make sure all your efforts are working and that you are really putting yourself out there to meet great women and as many women as you can. So, here are the steps and focuses for summer dating success.
How can I be more interesting in dating?
Work on yourself. Work on yourself continuously because when you are at your best, you attract the best kind of people for you. So, build your self-esteem, work out, get that haircut, take new photos, and build that confidence.
Do activities that you love. Get outside. Hang out with the people you love. Do things that are so fulfilling to you because, yes, the weather’s nice, and that already adds to your mood. But when you are already doing these activities, which also give you so much more confidence and make you feel fulfilled, you will have the best energy to meet the right woman.
This also means cutting out people who do not add value to your life. So, overall, please do not forget to just work on yourself and do so continuously; it really, really makes a difference.
Where do you find finds in the summer?
Create a plan of effort. Whenever you go out, whatever you are doing, recognize that that is an opportunity to meet ladies. Plan for events, schedule them in your calendar and look at summer events.
Guys, this is the most popular time for events to happen, wherever you are. There are so many summer events happening. If you do not know where it is in your city, go to eventbrite.com or meetup.com. Literally, search on Google for your city and then summer events.
Many times, the events are free. As I said, people in general, and especially single people, are out and about and exploring. So, this is your time to put in the effort to do these some—ooh, excuse me, —summer events and to recognize that wherever you go, that is an opportunity to engage with somebody else, all right?
So plan and make an effort. This also includes, obviously, online dating. Be more active. Single women and men are more active during this time because they want to find someone else or a companion to go to these summer events with. So, make an effort.
What are your dating goals for the summer?
Focus on your dating goals. Be intentional with dating. Do not just go out to these events or on these dating apps and just say, “Well, we’ll see where it goes.” No. Have intent. When you go out to these events, sure, enjoy the event yourself, and explore.
But also recognize, “I’m here to connect with people. I’m at the meetup event to connect with new people and new strangers I’ve never met before.” It could be a new friend, because, when you meet a new friend, that person has their own network, and maybe you could find your partner through them.
Have intent when you go out on dates. The intent is to connect with this person, to get to know her more and see if there’s something there? Be more intentional about dating and what your goals are.
If it is internal, once again, have intent in why you are doing it. “I am doing this for myself so I can grow my confidence in dating and learn how to converse with others more.” So focus on your dating goals. That is number three.
Do something different this summer
The most important focus for summer dating… is to do something different. It could be the new events I just mentioned—the new summer events you might go to that you have never been to before. New strategies that you are learning—maybe you are watching this right now, so you are learning a new strategy, hopefully—or my YouTube videos.
But, learning new strategies, learning different methods, new methods for you to date, new ways to converse, new ways to style yourself to feel good—do something different because only if you do something different, you will get a different result.
When you are looking at everything that you are doing this summer, look at your next few months. Ask yourself, “How am I spending this?” Please do not spend the majority of the time inside doing your routine or what you normally do. You do that basically for the rest of the year, especially when it gets very cold. We are staying inside.
So, this is the time to look at your calendar and think about it. Think about, “What am I going to do? Do I know what I’m doing?” And if you do not know what you are doing, this is why I’m here. Seek new feedback, new guidance, and new support. Have my support, start here.
Get out there, guys. Have fun, and enjoy the weather. Have a nice tan, and hopefully, over the next few months, you will be able to make a significant number of new connections.
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