Getting you on quality dates without changing who you are
It’s a question that plagues even the most well-intentioned men: “If I say this or do this, will she think I’m desperate or insecure?” You know that confidence is attractive, and that the slightest hint of desperation can lead to a swift rejection. It’s a valid fear. So, what are the actual behaviors that trigger …
Does This Make Me Seem Desperate?” 3 Behaviors That Kill AttractionRead More
Dating app burnout is real. The endless swiping, the conversations that go nowhere, the frustration—it’s exhausting. When you crash, it can take a huge amount of energy to get back out there, costing you precious time on your journey to find a partner. So, how do you avoid hitting that wall? And when you do …
For an introvert, the common dating advice to “just go to a bar or a club” feels like a punishment, not a plan. Those environments are loud, overstimulating, and often feel superficial—the exact opposite of where a quiet or reserved person thrives. You’re ready to meet someone in person, but you need a strategy that …
Dating as a quiet guy can feel like a disadvantage. You’re not the life of the party, you don’t spill your life story to strangers, and you’re generally slower to warm up. So how are you supposed to build the connection and excitement necessary to attract an amazing woman? The truth is, your quiet nature …
It’s one of the most common questions asked by introverted men: in a world that seems to reward the loud and outgoing, do women actually like quiet or shy guys? As a dating coach for genuine, good-hearted men, I hear this concern all the time. Men wonder if they even stand a chance against the …
Do Women Like Quiet or Shy Guys? The Definitive AnswerRead More
It’s one of the oldest questions in the dating world: Do opposites attract in relationships, or do birds of a feather flock together? When you’re thinking about who you want to date, it’s pretty important to be clear on what you’re seeking. Otherwise, you might find yourself lost, dating a bunch of people, and quickly …
So you want to build confidence in dating, but you’re worried it means having to become someone you’re not? Maybe you think you need to adopt a certain persona, use specific lines, or act like some other guy who seems successful. Forget that idea. I believe you already have what it takes. You have everything …
How to Build Confidence Without Changing Who You AreRead More
Feeling stuck? If you’re inexperienced in dating and unsure how and where to start in dating, the thought of putting yourself out there can be paralyzing. You know you lack experience, but that very fact makes it hard to figure out what to do or where to even begin. You need a starting point, a …
Inexperienced in Dating & Don’t Know What to Do? Your First StepsRead More
So, you’re worried. You lack dating experience, and the big question weighing on you is: “Will women automatically reject me because I’m inexperienced in dating?” It’s a fear many guys face, wondering if they’re starting at a disadvantage before they even get going. In my previous blog, we talked about when and how to bring …
Will Women Reject Me Because I’m Inexperienced in DatingRead More
Feeling like you’re stepping into the dating world without much of a track record? Maybe you had one relationship years ago, maybe you’ve never had one, or perhaps you’ve hardly been on any dates at all. Whatever your situation, if you feel you don’t have the dating experience you “should” have by now, you’re probably …
New to Dating? When & How to Talk About Your InexperienceRead More
Happy Holidays! Let’s talk about my top five Holiday dating tips. The holidays are quite a time, there is a lot going on, and you start having some questions in dating. You dread only one thing about seeing family….their questions about your love life. You wonder if you should even date during the Holidays. What …
I am asked a lot about how to keep a girl interested, “how would you keep that interest going? How to keep the novelty?” I have had different ways this question has been asked, but the main issue is feeling you maybe get the first, second, and even third date, but then it starts to …
