Let me discuss what you can do if she says I’m busy. When the moment you are trying to plan a date, “she tells you she’s busy and doesn’t give you an alternative date”. Is she actually interested? Is she slowly going to ghost on you? What does it mean? Is she telling the truth? …
Right time to Express feeling to her or wait?
Let me discuss the frequently asked question I get, “Should I express my feelings, or will I come across as too strong?” This is usually for the situations where you have met someone through friends like at a friend’s party or you met them at a meetup event, but more so for networking or maybe …
3 first things women notice about you
I am going to go over “the first 3 things women notice about you”. This is more for those specific situations of when you’re meeting someone you met through dating apps. This is the first time you’re meeting in person. And obviously, “the first five minutes really matter and sets the tone for the rest …
Mindset to always have something to say
Being able to keep the conversation going is one of the most important factors to successfully date quality women. This is why I am going to talk about the “mindset to have so you’ll always have something to say.” I get a lot of worried texts, or DMs, or emails about guys feeling like they …
She’s sending mixed signals: What to do
Women frequently send confusing signals without realizing it. So now, I am going to discuss “what to do when a girl gives you mixed signals?” It’s those moments where you feel she’s flirting with you, she’s engaged in this conversation with you, but there’s no overt behavior or true real expression of her interest in …
How to deal with dating exhaustion?
Do you have that moment where you are just so exhausted and a bit annoyed with dating? Online dating, offline dating, but I recognize when people come to me with this complaint, it’s mostly online. Because you’re on these apps, you’re swiping by, you message, Seems great, you go on a date. Doesn’t work. You …
Difference between bad boy and nice guy
What is the difference between the nice guy, the bad boy, and the good guy, aka, I call him the good gentleman. I’ve been getting asked a lot recently of why my program is called A Good Gentleman. Why is it that I help guide my guys to be a good gentleman and what does …
Keeping a girl interested in you
I am asked a lot about how to keep a girl interested, “how would you keep that interest going? How to keep the novelty?” I have had different ways this question has been asked, but the main issue is feeling you maybe get the first, second, and even third date, but then it starts to …
Is dating a colleague a good idea?
“Does dating a colleague or work relationship is a good idea.” This is a really popular question because, besides mutual friends, that’s really the only place you meet new people, you make new friends. College was probably the only time and then next is a workplace. Now, I know that COVID and the pandemic has …
How to approach a girl without being creepy
I am going to talk about how to approach a woman without being a creep. This is for those situations like a bar, lounge, coffee shop, grocery store, where you want to approach a woman coldly, but you don’t know what to say, and you don’t obviously want to be a creep, because let’s be …
Attraction vs. Infatuation: Do I like her?
What is the difference between attraction and infatuation, or lust (is what some people call it)? This situation comes up more often when I’m talking to clients, and they’re dating this girl continuously and doing a lot of things for her. When they come to me and say they’re “attracted to them,” I ask them, …
How to create chemistry on a date
In this blog, I am talking about how to cultivate and create that spark or chemistry on a date, because I’m pretty sure you’re aware, it’s really important. Anyone could appear almost perfect on paper, they could have the values you want, the personality traits you want, even the look that you want. But when …