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I have spent many years working, researching, and creating a one-on-one program that would get you from your zero luck to multiple connections that mean something to you. I wanted a program that would help you overcome your mindset barriers, fears, build confidence, and attract the girl of your dreams.
I could go on and on about how my strategies, years of experience, and coaching style would get you the progress you’ve been looking for.
But I’m sure you don’t want to hear it from me.
Let’s let my past clients tell you themselves!
They are like you, with the same fears and struggles, and big heart. Except, they took a leap many are too afraid to do, and look where it landed them.
A deeper look into their experiences and results after working with yours truly
Here are text messages I’ve received from clients of their success. Wouldn’t you want to send one of these? 🙂 click the image to enlarge
William Hung’ Successful Dating Journey
After going through marriage twice with both marriages not working out, leaving him with pain, he still wanted to find true love. He even came to a point of giving up his dating journey and thought of spending his life being single not until he saw me at Luisa Zhou’s program, Employee to Entrepreneur. He was so amazed by my working experiences and my background in helping good gentlemen finding their loved ones.
Also, the other thing that I want to point out that you helped me with a lot was the system. You definitely gave me a system. What to comment on? What to like? How to respond to their feedback? How to get them to tell their stories? That’s one of the most important factors.
Read more about his story here
Where is he now? My husband and I attended his wedding 🙂
Dating Success Story: 0 to 3 dates in one weekend to dating one quality lady
Scott was so appreciative, he appreciates how I was able to help him shifted his mind into a healthy mindset. How enlightening it was for him to learn how to bounce back from being rejected and not be discouraged to continue his dating journey. Because there is someone out there and the goal is just to find out who that is. He also mentioned that identifying his attractive traits, going out of his comfort zone, how to project himself, and what to look for on a date are some of the few things that he was able to learn from our one-on-one coaching session, and now Scott is currently talking with a quality girl.
Ruby was there to help with that, and help with my confidence, and I’m really appreciative of Ruby. Helping me out in certain situations, and definitely.
Where is he now? I decided to check in with him a couple years later and he sent this…
Lucas: Getting into a relationship after heartbreak and rejection
But when I met Ruby, by the grace of God, she gave me a lot of great advice. Her system really, really changed my life, really, really, for the better. To be honest with you, after everything that she’s taught me, all of her advice, I was able to meet a wonderful girl. We are now coming up on a one-month relationship, been dating for a month, a little more than a month. This relationship has been everything that I expected and more. She’s been really, really great. She’s the light of my life, as I would say right now.
Read more about his story here
Ed got his first girlfriend at the age of 42
Some of the clients that I’ve previously worked with are over the age of 40. They’ve decided to reach out and invest in learning such life skills that made their dating to the next level, just like Edward that got his first girlfriend at the age of 42 before even he finishes working one-on-one with me.
Edward: Well, right now, I feel great. I have a great sense of pride, amazement, and joy too because I made a lot of strides in dealing with my social anxiety. Also, with just learning the ropes with dating women. Now that I’m in a relationship, it’s great. It’s a great feeling, especially around this time of the year during the holidays.
Read more about his story here
by the way, his latest update, he’s married!
Thomas: How to date when you don’t know what to do
Thomas stopped dating for almost 3 years prior to working with me. Thinking of going back to dating, he just didn’t know what to do. He was blown away after a few months of having my guidance, he gained back his self-esteem and conquered his mindset. He couldn’t believe how he was dating multiple quality ladies but is happily enjoying the journey.
But after reframing and telling myself a key phrase, I am so much calmer. I have no more nerves. I can talk to her about anything. In fact, the last time I saw her three weeks ago, we were talking about the weekend and what we’re going to be doing next. Reframing myself just blown me away.
Read more about his story here
Dennis shares his Online Dating Success Story
Dennis is 44-year-old, divorced, and has been in the online dating world for quite some time. He made some best strides and tried his luck to meet a quality woman online, but he always ends up in the wrong relationship, which leads him to questions, doubt, and self-sabotage He believed that his standards were too high and always found something wrong with his date. He went on a workout spree and lost 40 pounds, reached out to expert pick-up artist guys who have helped him keep the conversations going with the girls but no luck on what to do next.
“I am absolutely blown away with both the message and the sincerity, you came straight from the hearth – Dennis”
Seth: from exhaustion to committed relationship
“He’s been getting dates but it is not leading anywhere, and been wondering how to get them to stick. This is Seth’s struggle for almost his entire dating life.
Seth is a professional guitarist and music teacher that found my program right after he talked to another counselor apart from coming across my video on his Facebook Feed and liked the way I approached things.
He believed that I can be a big help. He mentioned that he goes out on multiple dates in a week that is not leading him anywhere and finally learned how to stick with fewer dates when he started working one on one with me.
Somebody like yourself who’s really encouraging, but real, and you don’t BS, but you’re direct, that’s how I roll top.
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Kevin: from no dates, no interest to getting his first girlfriend and happily in his FIRST committed relationship
Meet Kevin, 32 years old, an engineer living in San Diego, CA. He didn’t have much of a dating experience, and if he did — it was only first dates. He was always getting seen as the “nice guy” and getting friend-zoned. He had all these questions like “How can I avoid this zone? How can I be confident? How can I meet women?” — listen to more of his journey to learn how he came from that to being in a committed relationship. And trust us, it wasn’t easy — but it was all worth it.
I do have a girlfriend, we see eye to eye, saw my strengths….she saw that and some of the things I”m worried about like not being tall enough, being an Asian guy, I thought women weren’t liking me for these reasons…but she likes me for all those reasons, for who truly I am.
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How to get a girlfriend with a little experience
This story will surely inspire you not to lose hope even though you don’t have much experience in dating.
Konrad is an IT specialist and dated a few people with no success because he never felt any connection with any of them. After moving to a new place and changing his career, he realizes that he can’t figure anything out on his own, and that’s what motivated him to work with me.
Ruby, you really helped me dispel that apprehension and show me that it doesn’t have to be like that. If you do it the right way and you’re willing to commit to doing it the right way, then the online aspect of dating the way it is now doesn’t have to be so difficult.
How to avoid dating fatigue or exhaustion
Max, a 29-year-old entrepreneur from Minessota, put his dating life on the back burner for the past years and is focusing on building up his career and growing his business. He just then noticed that every person he went on a date with was from his social circle and he struggled to meet new people due to moving from one city to another. Aside from his time and energy already limited, he didn’t know what to do, was hesitant about dating apps, and realizes that he didn’t have the best process for it
Max: Things are a lot better now. I just have so much more confidence as far as the process of online dating and just how I hold myself in a relationship. Things are so much better than I feel it’s more of an abundant mindset versus scarcity. I don’t feel stressed out or frustrated towards dating or anything like that. It’s a lot better of a situation.
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Jefferson: How to find a quality woman and keep her
Meet Jefferson, based in San Diego, California. The main reason why he sought out my help is because he was dating a lot of girls but wasn’t finding the better quality women he really liked or really attracted to. The whole thing around that was he felt was wasting his time, because he was going out on a lot of coffee dates, a lot of dinner dates, and they’re just all one date and done pretty much.
I realize that it doesn’t matter what they say, I own my own life and this is what I really want to do. If you’re frustrated enough, you try and make something different happen, if that means going to Ruby, a dating coach, dating advice, then that’s what you have to do.
You don’t have to keep going
with no results.
In order to get something different, you need to do something different.
It’s your turn to get the chance and get the girl.
How Myles built his confidence, own his quirks, and attract a woman
This is one of the inspiring stories I wanted you guys to hear. Please meet Miles, 28, a real estate person, who lives in Henderson, Nevada. He was a little taken aback by the amount of interest he has been receiving and never thought he would get much when he started working with me. He said he was only expecting 2 matches over the course of a couple of months but was surprised that he was able to get two matches in his first two days of working with me. Miles feels like he’s the one who’s getting all the interest and thought that it would be the other way around.
Miles: I think the most important part for me was you helping me to find my most desirable traits, which in turn had a boosting effect on my confidence, self-esteem, much needed, wanted that. Now, I don’t question whether I’m good or not anymore. I just know I am.
Rohan is ENGAGED! His story from confused, worried, to finding his supportive partner
Rohan is a software engineer in the medical space who does not know what to do about his dating life. He was worried about his ethnicity and appearance that hinders him from pursuing his dating journey, he also lacks clarity of what he is looking for a girl until such time he reach out to me to figure out what to do. I helped him from reframing his mindset to creating a dating app profile that he was not aware of where he met his fiance now and the rest is history. Aside from his determination to become successful in this area of his life, being open to the introspection process and making sure he understands himself and what he is looking for is what makes him successful in his dating journey.
Rohan: Yeah. Also, when we started doing the actual dates, our sense of humor definitely meshed right away. I guess it would’ve been on the third date, actually, the first movie we saw together was Deadpool.
Picky? Jason found higher quality ladies (during the pandemic too)
Jason has gotten into some serious relationships and had several dating experiences, but admits that he has never felt connected to a deeper level with the women he dated.
Aside from the fact that he is a bit of a perfectionist, he also admitted that he relaxed a bit and got more open-minded after we started working together. He explains how my guidance has helped him get higher quality dates and understand women better. Jason’s story will surely inspire you.
Jason: Well I admit that your guidance helps me a lot, I think. There are more matches, more quality matches. Being in a position where you have options, helps. It really does help with confidence, so I do thank you for that.
How Justin mastered the Friend-zone & attracted quality ladies
When I checked out her website, I started noticing that she’s not like the other dating coaches. She really is about helping, guys. Good Guys, guys like us, find good quality women, who will appreciate us for who and what we are, and so these other guys, going through the stuff with Ruby has actually put me in a state where I don’t even have to listen to those guys anymore.
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Jason went from 0 replies & dates to many replies & 3rd dates.
Jason is a 29 years old software developer who shares how hard it is for him to connect with people and has experienced struggles in dating even before COVID, and now, he’s in awe of how he was able to get multiple responses from online dating apps after a couple of days of working one on one with me.
He said that it’s a huge improvement aside from knowing his strengths and being able to build and market them. Because before, He wouldn’t really know what made him attractive and don’t know why people liked him.
It’s just about how I reacted to other people and how I interacted with other people. So, it’s mainly just, you have to realize that this is a learning opportunity for you and like anything in life, if you want to get better at something, you need to either work really hard at it or have someone teach you what to do.
Ben regained confidence & success in dating after divorce
Ben knew being divorced with two young kids set an obstacle for him. Not only that, but his previous marriage caused him to be emotionally shattered and insecure. He was haunted with the thought “who would want to date a single dad at this age?” Instead of falling into a darker spiral, he decided to invest in himself, seek out my guidance to get back on track and finally be in a healthy happy relationship with a woman that he deserves. Listen to his story of regaining his confidence, his fun journey dating quality ladies, and his success in now being in a healthy relationship.
For you, I felt it was more organic. You’re definitely tough. The material that you gave me, the material is just like seeing a psychologist. It’s just working on you, not tactics, but just working on you. That level of professionalism, that level of authenticity, I just felt I was truly not as a customer, but like a client. There are two different things.
Read more about his story here
Darren finally meets his ideal woman after learning about himself.
Because of his unhealthy habit of constantly comparing himself to others, Darren has struggled with dating since he was a teenager. He worried constantly that he didn’t have what it took to attract women like the other guys. He had no idea he was holding himself back until we started the program and began working to alter his thinking.
So, I feel as much as the training that I’ve had with Ruby is dating coaching, in a way, I also feel like I’ve worked with a relationship coach on the other hand because I was able to learn what I really like in a woman personally and I was able to meet pretty which someone, a person I could only dream about actually. I just can’t believe that this person exists. This is such a great reality now.
Triumph of Love: A Long-Distance Relationship Success
Cody’s journey from dating inexperience to a successful long-distance relationship shows how powerful it can be to ask for help and be open to change. This story gives us ideas for how to get out of our comfort zones and make progress and connections that go beyond where we live.
You go find the teacher, the master that knows it. But I wanted to find someone that was real. And then the fact that you were here in San Diego, it definitely drove me towards you because a lot of it was turning me off initially was just felt like people were driving me to be someone else. They were like, “Go, say this to her.” I was like, “Okay. Well, what happens if it works?
Important note: Although I do believe (there’s also proof!) my advice, products and programs can help you enhance your dating life, it does not guarantee it will work for everyone. I cannot predict and I do not guarantee that you will attain a particular result, and you accept and understand that results differ for each individual. Each individual’s result depends on his or her unique background, dedication, desire, motivation, actions, and numerous other factors. But, I will tell you that if you follow my advice, your chances of getting the lady you want will be drastically higher than how you started. My role is to assist you in reaching your own goals, but your success depends primarily on your own effort, motivation, commitment, and follow-through. Let’s get out of that unstuck space – We got this!