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How to Date (and Attract) When You’re a Quiet Guy

June 24, 2025 //  by Ruby

Dating as a quiet guy can feel like a disadvantage. You’re not the life of the party, you don’t spill your life story to strangers, and you’re generally slower to warm up. So how are you supposed to build the connection and excitement necessary to attract an amazing woman? The truth is, your quiet nature …

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Category: Attraction, Dates, MindsetTag: #AttractWomen, #ConfidentIntrovert, #ConnectionNotPerfection, #DatingAdviceForMen, #DatingAsAnIntrovert, #DatingMindset, #DatingWithConfidence, #EmbraceWhoYouAre, #HowToDate, #IntrovertDating, #IntrovertPower, #OwnYourPersonality, #QuietButStrong, #QuietConfidence, #QuietGuyDating, #RealConnection, #SelfAwareMen, #ShyGuysWelcome, #VulnerableIsAttractive, datingtips

Do Women Like Quiet or Shy Guys? The Definitive Answer

June 23, 2025 //  by Ruby

It’s one of the most common questions asked by introverted men: in a world that seems to reward the loud and outgoing, do women actually like quiet or shy guys? As a dating coach for genuine, good-hearted men, I hear this concern all the time. Men wonder if they even stand a chance against the …

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Category: Dates, Getting out of the friend-zone, Meeting women, MindsetTag: attraction and personality, confidence for shy men, Dating advice, dating advice for introverts, dating as a quiet guy, Dating Tips, do women like shy guys, introvert dating tips, quiet men and relationships, relationship tips for men, shy guys dating

Ghosted? The Text to Send To Get a Reply

June 3, 2025 //  by Ruby

Being ghosted is frustrating. You thought things were going well, maybe you were even planning a date, and then… silence. If you’re looking for a way to get a response, or at least some closure, you’re in the right place. While there are initial “check-in” texts you can send (which I cover in other videos), …

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Category: MindsetTag: #closuremessage, #DatingAdvice, #datingstruggles, #emotionalhonesty, #finaltext, #getareply, #ghostedwhatnow, #howtogetaclosure, #leftonread, #modernrelationships, #relationshipadvice, #respectfultexting, #secretingredienttext, #textingtips, Ghosting

How to Build Confidence Without Changing Who You Are

May 13, 2025 //  by Ruby

So you want to build confidence in dating, but you’re worried it means having to become someone you’re not? Maybe you think you need to adopt a certain persona, use specific lines, or act like some other guy who seems successful. Forget that idea. I believe you already have what it takes. You have everything …

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Category: Dates, MindsetTag: authentic confidence building, boost self-esteem naturally, building natural confidence, confidence building tips, confidence without faking it, grow confidence without changing yourself, how to be confident without pretending, how to build confidence naturally, how to develop confidence naturally, improve confidence naturally, inner confidence tips, natural self-confidence growth, natural ways to boost confidence, real ways to gain confidence, self-confidence tips

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Inexperienced in Dating & Don’t Know What to Do? Your First Steps

April 22, 2025 //  by Ruby

Feeling stuck? If you’re inexperienced in dating and unsure how and where to start in dating, the thought of putting yourself out there can be paralyzing.  You know you lack experience, but that very fact makes it hard to figure out what to do or where to even begin. You need a starting point, a …

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Will Women Reject Me Because I’m Inexperienced in Dating

April 15, 2025 //  by Ruby

So, you’re worried. ​You lack dating experience, and the big question weighing on you is: “Will women automatically reject me because I’m inexperienced in dating?” It’s a fear many guys face, wondering if they’re starting at a disadvantage before they even get going. In my previous blog, we talked about when and how to bring …

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Category: Attraction, Dates, MindsetTag: Becoming more confident, Building dating confidence, Confidence for men, Dating Mindset, Dating tips for beginners, first-time dating, How to start dating, Inexperienced in dating, Learning relationships, Overcoming insecurity, Personal Growth, Self-worth in dating

The image captures a warm and engaging moment between a man and a woman on a date, this image could complement a guide on how to talk about your inexperience in dating, helping individuals navigate conversations with authenticity and ease.

New to Dating? When & How to Talk About Your Inexperience

April 8, 2025 //  by Ruby

Feeling like you’re stepping into the dating world without much of a track record? Maybe you had one relationship years ago, maybe you’ve never had one, or perhaps you’ve hardly been on any dates at all. Whatever your situation, if you feel you don’t have the dating experience you “should” have by now, you’re probably …

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Category: Dates, MindsetTag: Addressing inexperience in relationships, Body Language, Building confidence in dating, Dating advice for beginners, Dating communication tips, Dating Tips, Dating tips for shy individuals, Early relationship challenges, Improving dating skills, Inexperienced in dating, Navigating first dates, Overcoming awkwardness in dating, Talking about dating inexperience

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3 first things women notice about you

January 7, 2025 //  by Ruby

I am going to go over “the first 3 things women notice about you”. This is more for those specific situations of when you’re meeting someone you met through dating apps. This is the first time you’re meeting in person. And obviously, “the first five minutes really matter and sets the tone for the rest …

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Category: Attraction, Meeting women, MindsetTag: Body Language, Communication skills, confidence, eye contact, Grooming, hygiene practices, mannerisms, overall presentation., smile and facial expressions, style choices

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Keeping a girl interested in you

November 22, 2024 //  by Ruby

I am asked a lot about how to keep a girl interested, “how would you keep that interest going? How to keep the novelty?” I have had different ways this question has been asked, but the main issue is feeling you maybe get the first, second, and even third date, but then it starts to …

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Category: Dates, MindsetTag: Attracting Your Partner, Building Connection, Dating advice, Emotional Connection, Keeping Romance Alive, Long-Term Love, Relationship Building, Relationship Tips, Romantic Relationships Love and Intimacy

This image captures a smooth, intimate date night vibe, where two people are connecting over drinks. It highlights the common challenge: Don’t know what to ask her on a date? This moment reflects the excitement and nerves of finding the right questions to keep the conversation flowing naturally.

Don’t know what to ask her on a date? Ask this

November 12, 2024 //  by Ruby

Have you experienced the moment when you just don’t know what to ask her on a date? You’re having this conversation with her, she’s responding well, but you don’t know what other questions to ask from there.  You want to keep the conversation flowing, but you know being able to ask questions is a part …

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Category: Conversation tips, Dates, MindsetTag: Asking Her Out, Communication skills, Conversation starters, Date Questions, Dating advice, First Date Tips, Flirting tips, Relationship Building, Romantic Ideas

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3 reasons why you’re still single

October 15, 2024 //  by Ruby

Seriously, “Why you’re still single?”. Do you hear these words most of the time? It’s a vulnerable topic and wanted to answer this in the best way I know how. This isn’t best to just write my blog or message in an email. Because I do feel that I am a better speaker, especially if …

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Category: Attraction, MindsetTag: datingtips, embracingindepence, findinglove, selfreflection

This image captures a guy who looks thrilled while looking at his phone—maybe he just got some exciting news or a positive message. It’s a moment full of joy and confidence. When thinking about "what is the right mindset for dating," this image reflects exactly that—being upbeat, open to new possibilities, and celebrating small wins. In dating, having a positive and confident mindset can make all the difference, just like this guy is showing with his reaction!

3 dating mindset shifts to get success

October 1, 2024 //  by Ruby

Let’s go over the 3 big dating mindset shifts that will help get you dating success. These shifts can be utilized for any other area in your life. Honestly, I was inspired to come up with this blog because I recently fractured my arm. As I was adjusting and going through the pains of what …

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Category: MindsetTag: Dating advice, Dating mindset shifts, Dating success, Mindset transformation, Positive mindset

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