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Inexperienced in Dating & Don’t Know What to Do? Your First Steps

April 22, 2025 //  by Ruby

Feeling stuck? If you’re inexperienced in dating and unsure how and where to start in dating, the thought of putting yourself out there can be paralyzing.  You know you lack experience, but that very fact makes it hard to figure out what to do or where to even begin. You need a starting point, a …

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Category: Dates, MindsetTag: beginner dating tips, Confidence Building, confidence for shy guys, Dating advice, dating confidence tips, dating for inexperienced men, dating for men, dating inexperience, Dating tips for beginners, emotional growth, first time dating advice, first-time dating, how to build dating confidence, How to start dating, how to start dating with no experience, how to take action in dating, Mindset Shift, mindset shift for dating, online dating for beginners, overcoming dating anxiety, overcoming fear, Personal Growth, personal growth in relationships, relationship advice for men, Relationship Tips, self improvement for dating, Self-improvement, Social skills, social skills for dating, taking action

Geek Chic: Why Women Love The Nerdy Look Now (And How to Get That Style)

March 20, 2025 //  by Ruby

While nerds were historically perceived as outsiders, uninteresting, and undesirable, being a nerd is now in style. Commonly referred to as the ‘geek chic’ or ‘hot nerd’ movement on social media, the trend involves women associating traditionally nerdy interests like reading books and playing video games with physical attractiveness.  In fact, the hot nerd trend is …

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Category: UncategorizedTag: chic nerd look, fashion tips, geek style, hot nerd aesthetic, nerdy fashion, pop culture fashion, preppy style, Self-improvement, smart casual outfits, stylish geek, trendy nerd fashion

Nervous around women? Here's how to overcome it

Nervous around women? Here’s how to overcome it

April 20, 2024 //  by Ruby

If you find yourself feeling nervous around women, and thinking how to overcome it you’re not alone. I understand those intense nervous moments, whether during a first date or approaching someone at a networking event. The overwhelming nerves can leave you speechless. Let me help you overcome that. Subscribe to my channel to get new …

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Category: Conversation tips, Dates, Initial approach advice, Meeting women, MindsetTag: Communication skills, confidence, Dating Tips, interacting with women., nervousness, Overcoming anxiety, Personal Growth, Self-improvement, shyness, social confidence

Is approaching women sleazy? 8

Is approaching women sleazy?

June 14, 2023 //  by Ruby

For some, approaching ladies is all about timing and strategy, but let me discuss if “is approaching women sleazy, odd, or creepy?” further, and any of those negative views. What’s interesting is, I get this question normally after clients are curious about how to start a conversation with the girl in public. And then after …

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Category: Conversation tips, Initial approach advice, Meeting womenTag: Approaching women, Boundaries, Communication, Communication skills, confidence, Consent, Dating advice, Misconceptions, Mutual interest, Open communication, Respectful approach, Self-improvement, Social interactions, Social skills, Stereotypes, Understanding women

Why aren't women giving me a chance

Why Aren’t Women Giving Me a Chance? Here’s How to Get It

September 16, 2022 //  by Ruby

If you’ve been asking and searching for the big answer to  “Why aren’t women giving me a chance?!” — I got you! I know it’s quite a big question, especially if you’ve had constant rejections. You just want a simple date. You just want someone to give you a chance. So you’re wondering…why is this …

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Category: Attraction, Conversation tips, Dates, Meeting women, MindsetTag: Building Confidence, Dating Tips for Men, Empathy and Communication in Dating, Overcoming Dating Challenges, Self-improvement, Understanding Women's Perspective

How to find dates when you’re not interesting 4

How to find dates when you’re not interesting

August 24, 2022 //  by Ruby

How to find dates when you’re not interesting? This is a common question I get asked a lot. I’m answering this question, because if you haven’t watched my previous video about how do I date when I’m boring, make sure to watch that video first, because I get a lot of clients who are introverted, …

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Category: Attraction, Dates, Meeting women, MindsetTag: Building Confidence, Connecting with others, Dating Tips, Finding dates, Lack of interest, Overcoming boredom, Personal Growth, Relationship advice, Self-improvement, Social skills

How to date when you feel you’re boring 4

How to date when you feel you’re boring

August 16, 2022 //  by Ruby

“How to date when you feel you’re boring?” This is a frequently asked question, but let me assure you that there is no such thing as a boring person, so allow me to address it. Let’s get into this big question because I feel I get this a lot when I’m starting off with my …

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Category: Attraction, Dates, Meeting women, MindsetTag: Building Confidence, Connecting authentically., Conversation starters, Dating Tips, Embracing uniqueness, Finding common interests, Overcoming boredom, Personal Growth, Relationship advice, Self-improvement

How to stand out from other guys 5

How to stand out from other guys

August 11, 2022 //  by Ruby

How do I stand out above other guys? how do I separate myself from other guys? A common question I got a lot that I am going to discuss. Because I’m pretty sure you’re aware, all the attractive, smart, fun ladies, especially in online dating, you know they’re bombarded by messages and have plenty of …

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Category: Attraction, Dates, Meeting womenTag: assertiveness, authenticity, charisma, charm, confidence, embracing differences., individuality, personal branding, Self-improvement, unique style

Not getting the 2nd date? Here's Why 5

Not getting the 2nd date? Here’s Why

March 23, 2022 //  by Ruby

What are the reasons why you may not be getting a second date? Let’s talk about this because it can be very disappointing when you go on first dates, but only first dates. Let’s say you get plenty of first dates, but for some reason, these ladies have decided to either ghost or tell you, …

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Category: Dates, Initial approach advice, UncategorizedTag: Building Connections, Communication skills, Dating advice, Dating habits, Personal Growth, Relationship advice, relationship mistakes, Second date tips, Self-improvement, Understanding rejection

How to flirt when you're an awkward guy

How to flirt when you’re an awkward guy

September 10, 2021 //  by Ruby

Flirting is an art you should cultivate, because not knowing how to flirt could sabotage your dating life– and learning how to flirt is a big question as it is, but how do you flirt when you’re an awkward guy? How to flirt while being awkward? That’s a whole other level! Being awkward is already …

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Category: Conversation tips, Meeting womenTag: awkwardness, Body Language, Communication skills, Confidence Building, Dating advice, Flirting tips, Overcoming shyness, Self-improvement, shy guys, Social skills

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